The onus is on you to conform to the common rules of decency, not on me to condone your liberal use of the language in writing. Just as I doubt if you'd walk around with your genitals showing in public, even if at home you are a confirmed naturist. There's a time and a place for everything, and personally I'd rather not read vulgar terms when they're not needed in a public place.
It's no loss of freedom of speech on my part to not use it in yours or her presence, so I'd simply not use the expression on the forum. Common sense?
The onus is on you not to get on your high horse and dictate to others what they can and cannot say. Then you conflate my commitment to not use the expression again with wandering around with genitals on display... Ground control to Major Tom?
This is not a forum for children, and you are not the thought police...